In Life There Is No One To Help You: It’s About Effort

We live in a society that sometimes sees success without trust. There are those who believe that doing good in life does not reflect our efforts.

Some believe that success is due to the influence of third parties. Sometimes they will also say that it is because of fate or happiness.

It may be that this is true. It is possible that external influences help some people to get up without sufficient competence. But talent exists.

If you are excellent at something, it is usually due to hard work. It comes from late nights, daily effort, sacrifice and a constant struggle that leaves no room for surrender.

Because, as everyone knows, nothing is free. However, there are those who limit themselves to dreaming and hope that “things will work out” due to a stroke of luck in the universe.

Others, on the other hand, know that in order to achieve a dream, there is only one magic formula: hard work.

We want you to think about this.

All you have is because of your hard work and your efforts

Author Wally Lamb once said: ” Fate shuffles the cards, but we are the ones who have to play the game “.

Those who think that their friends’ happiness or the neighbor’s success with their own job is just a coincidence are mistaken.

They are so wrong that

It can definitely be shocking. However, this reality hides an interesting psychological process. Later we will explain some important aspects related to success, overcoming difficulties, and envy.

The double-edged sword of distant happiness

” I want you to be happy, but no more than me. ” This idea sums up what “fake friends” feel for us when they see us live the life we ​​have always dreamed of.

If you have ever noticed that one of your acquaintances makes you feel this way, it is important to know why.

• There are those who must have some control over their close circle. This control is also based on an equality of conditions. If anyone escapes this balance, they will be questioned and rejected.

• This need for control actually hides a low self-esteem. They think, “If everyone around me is as bad as I am, my incompetence will not stand out.” There is an inequality of conditions.

So, the moment this person sees that your work is equal or better than theirs in some way, they feel that they are being beaten.

Perseverance always pays off: ignore those who say otherwise

“Why do you want to apply for a job there? Everything is a bluff and the only ones who come in are those who have good connections! ”,“ Why did you fall in love with him? He’s way too good for you, you’re wasting your time! ”

We have all heard sentences like these from time to time. They can change depending on the place, context, and people talking. But the idea remains the same: They want to cut your wings and kill your dreams, so that they prevent you from being happier than they are.

It is clear that we must be realistic, given that we sometimes build houses of cards on cotton clouds .

But when our goal is clear, logical, and possible, we must do everything we can to achieve it.

Daily effort is a reflection of endurance. Those who do not invest their time, their emotions, dreams and every fiber of their being, will not achieve their goals.

This is due to something we have already seen. In life, no one gives anything for free.

Never give up

Along with perseverance and daily effort, there is an unshakable attitude: not to give up.

Anyone who longs to reach a goal cannot just work or get started. At the same time, they have to face many external factors.

These are not just fake friends we talked about before, “dream killers”. There are barriers set up by society, and there are structures, back doors, filters, walls… And, of course, the same tricks we always come across.

You have to be strong. When you see that you are capable of achieving something, you have to fight for it. Be brave on the turbulent sea where not everyone stays afloat. Because sometimes it’s not enough to just have talent.

Sometimes you have to have a brave courage and a noble, strong, unshakable mind.

Only then can we achieve the success we deserve.